14th February.
The traditional day of hearts and flowers, romance and gestures.
This year, it also marked the end of a year which has opened my eyes to the self absorbed world of addiction and denial, depression fallout and frustration at being unable to help.
Yes, I fell for someone with enough baggage and issues to floor an elephant.
I learned that addiction and denial go hand in hand.
That addiction, denial and depression feed off each other.
I learned that you cannot help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
That a large part of denial is The Blame Game.
And I realised I had to let this person go.
Oh I am sorry that things ended for you. But you have learnt from that experience and it has made you a more knowledgeable person. Hope the right person come along very shortly. Nina - from Etsy!
ReplyDeleteAww - thank you, Nina xx
Delete